Views on Marriage

Marriage is a powerful creator and sustainer of human and social capital for adults as well as children, about as important as education when it comes to promoting the health, wealth, and well-being of adults and communities. 

Here l have attached the views of marriage, as all have different opinions and perspectives to look the marriage.

 It's how we make it to be. In India, marriage is just for the sake of sex and sacrifice and many other things. Reasons behind marrying are forceful, girl marries as to get backup economically and socially.  We marry for sex, money, social status etc. When it comes to marriage, society says that a man should be earning good. When girl's family should also think about their girl's independence economically. Then money will not become forceful reason behind marriage. We can say becoming 18 or 21 of age is not the criteria of marrying. Our perspective towards marriage is not individual but here family marries to another family that is the main problem. If I don't like my fiance after engagement then I should think about my family's status and their feelings before saying no.One must marry when one wants to get married. 

 In our culture we say "Chhokri jova joiye Che" ,it's must be an object for showcasing. We don't meet but see in arrange marriage. Family sees boy's income and status, on this base the marriage is confirmed. And one cannot even get a chance to have time with his/her for knowing. Logic is simple, without knowing someone how can you marry, and yes knowing someone can not make you to give a decision on marriage. We come into contact with many people, then it will become impossible to accept that person whom we even don't know or with whom we have not shared our feeling before. Marriage is beautiful journey when one wishes to get in..

           ~ Alpa ponda 

 Jane Austen being feminine is use to convey her feelings in her novels. And about her, marriage is the supreme gift which is what believed by her. Is it good to marry? Of course when you are finding a soul to be mingle with. (Or one can go alone like one can see in the movie Queen of Kangana) what I do believe is everything is ok with marriage or it can be ok with living together without marriage like the concept is going on in recent time.

-  Kaushal Desai

 Marriage is one of the oldest ritual and part of human life. As per my opinion it is obviously important to set the relationship system on the earth. It is a system to establish faith, fellowship and co-operation, commitment among men and women. These everything can be done without marriage too but the most important role of  marriage is that it forms 'family' which is much needed to live life full of emotions and peace.

- Jignesh Golil